Two Cars Totaled
It is a horrific experience to see the movement of a car on your right, and then gaze into the rear view mirror at 55 MPH to watch it crash into your sisters car.
I knew that car was going to hit her - it was like a second sense.
I saw my sister's attempt to brake and the sudden fishtail before they plowed into each other. The other car would have been T-boned and it's driver seriously injured if not for that brief defensive move. The noise filled my ears and the glass and metal flew in all directions.
The memory of braking and pulling over has not returned to my head, but sitting on the shoulder of the road dialing 911 in a panic is clear. I don't know why I just didn't hop out and start running back there. Maybe I was too afraid.
Fortunately two handsome young men who were traveling right behind her were out of their car in an instant and rushing to both cars.
The emergency vehicles arrived on the scene in minutes. The other driver was cited for failure to yield right of way.
A trip by ambulance to ER reassured the medics and us that our older sister's injuries were not life threatening. There is a seat belt hematoma across her chest, sore neck and back, and contusions and swelling on her knees. The air bag malfunctioned and did not deploy.
Trish and I stayed with the car long enough to remove Sandra's belongings and leave a key for the tow truck. Then we headed to the hospital and waited for her X-rays.
Cool and calm I was not. I had to stop and think slowly when the State Policeman asked the questions about the accident.
My hands were shaking and my stomach was upset. I thought my sister looked her age for the very first time. She cried only once, - when she said she was sad to leave her late husbands automobile crushed on the side of the road. She's been through so much this year.
Later, while taking her home from the hospital, I realized I did not take my camera out of the back seat to photograph the metal carnage.
It seems a shame now that I don't have one to add to this post. It didn't even cross my mind.
More important is the fact that she is alive and in one blessed piece.
The ocean was wonderful. I'll post on that soon.
I knew that car was going to hit her - it was like a second sense.
I saw my sister's attempt to brake and the sudden fishtail before they plowed into each other. The other car would have been T-boned and it's driver seriously injured if not for that brief defensive move. The noise filled my ears and the glass and metal flew in all directions.
The memory of braking and pulling over has not returned to my head, but sitting on the shoulder of the road dialing 911 in a panic is clear. I don't know why I just didn't hop out and start running back there. Maybe I was too afraid.
Fortunately two handsome young men who were traveling right behind her were out of their car in an instant and rushing to both cars.
The emergency vehicles arrived on the scene in minutes. The other driver was cited for failure to yield right of way.
A trip by ambulance to ER reassured the medics and us that our older sister's injuries were not life threatening. There is a seat belt hematoma across her chest, sore neck and back, and contusions and swelling on her knees. The air bag malfunctioned and did not deploy.
Trish and I stayed with the car long enough to remove Sandra's belongings and leave a key for the tow truck. Then we headed to the hospital and waited for her X-rays.
Cool and calm I was not. I had to stop and think slowly when the State Policeman asked the questions about the accident.
My hands were shaking and my stomach was upset. I thought my sister looked her age for the very first time. She cried only once, - when she said she was sad to leave her late husbands automobile crushed on the side of the road. She's been through so much this year.
Later, while taking her home from the hospital, I realized I did not take my camera out of the back seat to photograph the metal carnage.
It seems a shame now that I don't have one to add to this post. It didn't even cross my mind.
More important is the fact that she is alive and in one blessed piece.
The ocean was wonderful. I'll post on that soon.
Comments
I think I felt the worst at the thought of how your sister felt at leaving her husband's car on the side of the road. If anyone is trying to imaging how traumatic this was for you, the fact that you didn't get a photo says it all.
You know I'm not a the praying type, but in this case I'll make an exception.
I'm glad she will be alright in the long run, but trauma is trauma and it's not a fun thing to go through. I hope she recouperates quickly.
This is about the 5th time in recent days I have heard of airbags not deploying.
((hugs)) to you, what an awful experience.
I am looking forward to your ocean pictures and tale,
I'm so sorry this happened on your getaway. I know some of what you must have felt witnessing the accident as I saw my daughter's car get broadsided, lose control and hit a tree head on. I was sure she would not survive, but had just cuts and bruises.
So glad your sister is OK after all she has been through this year.
Looking forward to your ocean pictures.
:)
I just read your last two posts back to back. What promised to be a wonderful sisters' gathering instead turned out to be...the most memorable get together of your lives. I am soooo sorry to hear this "story" of yours, but so thankful Sandra is, in your words, "alive and in one blessed piece".
Wow. Heartfelt hugs from me to you. And Sandra. And Trish.
So sorry.
I came over to tease you about letting Karmyn be in a biker gang when she was 3, and I was hoping for some really cool sister stories (since I have 2 sisters, myself), and then I read this!
(((HUGS)))
I'm so glad you and your sisters are all safe.
I'm glad Sandra is okay (somewhat). YIKES!! How frightening - and just goes to show how important spending time with loved ones is!!!!!!!
(actually - Matt said it best, eh?)
I am so thankful that your Sister is okay.
It broke my heart for her to have to leave her husbands car on the side of the road. I'm not sure how that would feel but I can imagine it would be more difficult that I can put my mind around.
Second.
I heart WillowTree. =) His comment was absolute perfect. If I could see him I'd pinch his cheeks and hug him really tight until he begged me to let go.
Just so sorry how it ended. What a shock for all of you. It is so easy to think we have all the time in the world!
Karmyn is right that we should never put off spending time with loved ones!!
How horrible -- but glad to hear she is okay. I hope she heals well.
BTW, thanks for your kind words last week when my wife was in surgery.
I can't even imagine seeing that in my rear view mirrow. Then for her to have to leave his car there, oh, it just broke my heart.
I am so glad that your sister is okay. A prayer of thanks is what I will be saying for you and your families.
I hope you enjoyed the rest of your trip! :)