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Thursday, September 24, 2009

Just The Right Amount

It’s just another day in paradise. Her thoughts bemused her as the sun peaked over the hills and through her curtains. Once more she was awake early.

4:45 am.

Is insomnia just my burden to bear? she wondered. Or are there millions just like her, cracking the dawn hours before the alarm.

Her movements woke her husband and he moaned through an exaggerated arm stretch. She rolled over and laid her face against his shoulder.

“It’s early hon.” she whispered. “Please lie still and let me spoon you for a few minutes. I need to cuddle.”

He agreed. Within moments of repositioning his pillow he relaxed and she counted the 27 seconds it took him to return to nod.

Well, that was too easy, she mused.

She slid out of bed and padded softly down the hall to the kitchen. Lulling him back to sleep also meant that she assumed the job of barista. He usually brewed the first pot and offered her a cup with just the right amount of cream.

Now was a good time to check her E-mail and read her favorite web sites. Who am I kidding.If I sit down I’ll never get up. But she sat anyway.

There were the usual mail forwards that she’d already seen multiple times. She deleted those along with all the spam she’d been getting about Viagra and various other enhancing pills and procedures. That left just the messages from friends and family – the important stuff.

Then she saw a short message from an old boyfriend. Former, she chided herself. Old sounds ... well... too old.

His was one of the rekindled friendships with childhood school chums she’d made during the summer.

The message was short and caught her off guard. “I’ve been thinking a lot about you lately.”

She smiled and sat up straighter and affected a better posture - once a girl, always a girl – and searched her memories of 7th grade. They’d been an item in a very innocent prepubescent sort of way.

I should have listened closer to the morning talk show about imprinting, she chastised herself. Some scientist claimed that properties from the chemistry of teenage romance were still accessible in the brains of older people. One of the reasons, he asserted, why Facebook was such an appealing phenomenon. You could connect with former lovers and relive those forgotten, but not lost, sensations.

“Snort.” She thought aloud about the science.

But she reconsidered. It felt kind of nice to know that someone from so long ago still has a special spot in his heart for her.

Thirty minutes later, still sitting at the computer, she heard her husband walk up behind her and felt his hand on her shoulder. The other hand held his mug of black coffee.

“Maybe you need some spooning every morning so you can get more sleep” she suggestively lifted one eyebrow and twirled her pajama covered shoulder. “I may be an old fart, but I’ve still got it. And, I even have an old boyfriend that still thinks about me.” (Darn, she’d used that word old again.)

She’d caught his attention, so she poured it on a little thicker to get a response.

“I can understand that,” he smiled the smile that accentuates his dimple. “I’ve been married to you for 32 years and I still like to think about you.” He ran his fingers through the fringe of hair tickling his ears.

She growled.“Thirty-three years mister, and don’t you forget that, and … don’t forget to remind me this evening to trim your hair!”

“Oh yeah! I do need a haircut.” He turned and walked away to see if there was anything in the cupboard for breakfast.

Such a jealous man, she reflected. Not.

Several days and the demands in her life kept her busy with other worries. But, the words of her old boyfriend returned when she corresponded with him once more.

“So, you’ve been thinking about me?” she couldn’t help herself.

“Yeah….I’ve been feeling really guilty.” He began.

Then he shared something that had been bothering him since he sat on her patio and talked about old times. (Old. Old. Old. Old. Enough already!)

Her countenance changed and she slumped slowly back into her chair as she listened to his story. A story about his years of disrespect and whispering behind the backs of people who were overweight.

He'd never thought about the obese as real people with circumstances that changed or made their bodies different. His revived relationship with her, he admitted, primed his conscience and he felt reprimanded for his lack of empathy and understanding.

“Inside, you are still the same person that I knew as a kid,” he said and she finished the sentence in her mind, but, your body has really changed... Yeah, tell me about it.


She probably agreed with him and maybe she even changed the subject. Maybe she remembers her euphoria falling;

Ker Splat.
Rhymes with Her Fat.

And... she was going to have to admit to her husband that she didn’t still have it,” after all.

The next morning found her awake much too early, sitting in the recliner. She’d moved to it sometime during the night. A night that she swore she saw the minute hand hand reach its destination every hour. Would a glass of wine or a couple of Benedryl ease this wakefulness, she wondered.

Sounds from the kitchen drew her attention along with the aroma of fresh ground brew.

“Hey,” she called to her man.

He peaked around the entry way and quipped “mornin!

“Remember what I told you about my old boyfriend,” she called.  She heard a short “yeah” of affirmation.

“Well...he was thinking about me because I got f-a-t.”

She heard the cupboard open but didn’t hear any response to her early morning confession.

Until he walked around the corner and declared, “He was probably shocked because in spite of that you are still beautiful.”

And then .... he handed her a cup of coffee with just the perfect amount of cream.

32 comments:

jennie said...

What a romantic story! What a lucky woman.

Janis said...

Your Hubby is a wise man. That was a good story. Don't we all have those little moments from the past!

cherie said...

makes me want to blog, ms. pam! soooo romantic!

12ontheinside said...

Lovely post, Pamela.

Karmyn R said...

Oh - that just choked me up. One of your best posts, mom.

tlawwife said...

How sweet!

dawn said...

A wonderful post. About your comment from Debbie's post, despite not learning from living books you are a perfect example of teaching by living posts. I have been in touch with an old boyfriend and I can relate to what you have said. He didn't think my weight had changed substantially when he saw me (despite the extra 50 pounds); he really saw me as I was back then and still does which is a little unnerving at times. He recently started reading my blog so I think he will start seeing me as a different albeit the same person. It is interesting to look back but there is definitely a comfort in the history and security of being with the same someone who will always be there.

inlandempiregirl said...

You captured the emotion and events perfectly. Lovely post.

willowtree said...

Great post...for a fat girl.

karisma said...

Now THAT is a very sweet story!

Soooooo....would you like me to run on up and kick WT? I can you know, its only 5 hours or so to get there! I can find him! I can forgo my normal passive state and make him suffer and stuff if you like! hehe! I could teach him a little of what happens when a boy calls a girl fat! Yes I can!

Cathy M said...

What a nice story. What a loving husband.

Lil Mouse said...

hmm truth or fiction? Because I don't think you're fat? But it is beautifully written, whatever it is!

Shelby said...

P.E.R.F.E.C.T.

sending hugs to you and yours. you are truly blessed - and you know it. the best blessed.

Intense Guy said...

Now there is a man, comfortable in his own skin, that knows just how lucky he is - and has the ability and charm to express himself with more than just words.

:) I hope your coffee is perfect every morning.

Moi said...

happy Sigh. that was very well written!!!

nikki said...

A wonderfully touching post. One of my favorites of yours.

lisaschaos said...

Sounds like she married the right man!

ChrisB said...

That was such a sweet story, so beautifully crafted, I loved it. It beats some of the 5 min stories I've read in magazines.

PEA said...

Awwww I so enjoyed your story...your hubby is a very smart man, he knows the jewel he has:-) I have a friend who is still so in love with her ex boyfriend that she hasn't seen in years and even though she's had opportunities to meet him again, she says no way because he'd be shocked at how fat she's gotten. I told her if he loved her too, that shouldn't matter. It's just so sad that weight can be such a problem between people's relationships. xoxo

Gattina said...

Hahaha ! and did he became fat too ?
For years each time we had a fight my man and I, I thought about my former fiancé ! and then I met him per coincidence in the Theatre ! Wow, was he looking old and wrinkled and had white hair and he had become a skinny minnie ! I never think of him again even when we are fighting, I look at my man and think, I have a lot of chance ! Besides a little grey at the temples and some "male" wrinkles in his face, he still has the same weight, lol !

Junebug said...

Such a good post!

Swampy said...

G-r-r-r-e-e-e-a-a-a-t-t-t
Post.

LadyStyx said...

Awww. Sounds like something my hubby would say!

Jeanette said...

Awww!!!! beautiful romantic post, Sounds like a marriage made in heaven, keep enjoying those morning coffee's..

THANKS FOR YOUR INTEREST IN MY EYE OPS.. yhey were painless just a little discomfort healing. its the small print thats hard to read with out glasses 1 good eye and 1 bad,, looking forward to next op when ill have 2 good eyes and only glasses for reading...

Peter said...

Same as every one else !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kila said...

Wonderful post.

I hope it really is like that, somewhere.

~grey said...

wonderful and touching story!

made me smile...

Robinella said...

Aren't you glad 7th grade came and went. Your true love was out there waiting for you.

Stephanie, Mama Dramatist said...

Pamela, my dear, this is perhaps the best thing I have ever read from you. Lovely!! Simply, perfectly, LOVELY!!

wendy said...

Wow. Really really good!

I enjoyed every line.

Robin ~ PENSIEVE said...

:)...

So glad I kept reading your page for a "Best of The Dust" post; THIS is a great reminder why I began reading you so long ago...why I fell into your writing...and why I miss reading you now.

You aren't writing as much; and you KNOW I just about stopped reading blogs. But I'm missing some of my earliest blogging friends (notice I deliberately did NOT use the "O" word, lol).

Beautiful, poignant, and felt. You really should post more often; clearly, you still have quite the following :).

xo

the planet of janet said...

wow.

just ... wow.

and perfect.